Alumni Spotlight: Ryan O'Laughlin

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What has Ryan been up to since graduation? Simple things like putting himself through UC Berkeley, achieving his own neurological health and writing, illustrating and publishing two novels. No big deal.

Get to know Ryan again.

Name some of the the places where you have lived.

When I left Meadville, I moved to Fresno, CA... aka, "The Crater," aka, the crystal meth capital of the known galaxy. Don't judge me! I had a family member I could live with while I waited out my state residency status to qualify for the grants I needed to put myself through college. I kept my head down and pulled out the best grades I could at community college. It paid off; I got into UC Berkeley and never looked back!

After that, Berkeley, obviously. Then, Oakland ("I Hella love Oakland!!!"), then back to PA (Pittsburgh) to be close to family.

Would you like to share a bit about your family? Kids, fur babies, significant other, etc. What do they do that makes you proud?

Kids, pets and significant others are all terrifying. However, as I graduated high school and left the state, my mom continued to spawn in a manner that can best be described as imperial and my dad had another kid with his new family unit. So, I went from having one younger sister in high school to being the oldest of TEN by the time I graduated college. Like I said... terrifying.

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Did you go to college? Where did you go? What did you study?

Berzerkeley. I went there, innocently enough, to study psychology. I ran into a bit of a snag, though, as I transferred in by the spring semester of 2002. 9/11 was fresh on everyone's mind and the campus was rioting with anti-war protesting the likes of which would make today's campus beatdowns look like ballroom dancing. Now, add to that nonsense my own nonsense; I had inherited a severe case of the old family curse, bipolar disorder. So, to paint a complete picture, I was deeply suididal, completely alone and punching my way through picket lines on a daily basis to get myself to class.

Sounds bad, right? Well, don't worry! Having access to the best research in the world on my condition and meeting some of the most amazing, sensitive, bright and open people in the country, I had the hope I needed to hold on while my mind healed. I found a way to achieve neurological health and I've remained totally asymptomatic for the last 17 years. No drugs or therapy, just a healthy lifestyle and a commitment toward healthy relationships.

What have you been up to since graduation/the last reunion?

While it was ten years in the making, I now write a series of experimental horror novels. I say, "experimental," as they are heavily illustrated, like a graphic novel in reverse. The first, "THE AUTODIDACT," is an extremely violent black comedy, published in 2018. The second, "M1ST3R WH1SK3RS," is a tragic, romantic body-horror, published this year.

I. Will. Not. Stop.

Share a fun fact about yourself. Maybe something we wouldn't know about you.

Shoot, this is a tough one. I like to think I'm somewhat of an open book; art nerd, bookworm, metalhead... pretty standard.

(Stop reading, now, this is internal dialogue, so it would be rude to peek in). Should I lie? Yeah, I should totally lie!!! (Okay, you can continue reading, now).

Fun fact! I can slam dunk basketballs like a BOSS! Ooh, also, I'm a male model; I do all the top modeling... catwalks. Chess master, total chess master, never been beat. Killed like 50 dudes in prison... with... Brazilian... MMA.

So, you know, pretty boring. No big deal.

When you have some spare time, what is your favorite thing to do?

Aside from writing and drawing, I attend a LOT of concerts. Living in Pittsburgh, I've become pretty skilled at finding hot shows for cheap from really fantastic, emerging bands. It's basically the only semblance of a normal social life I have.

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What is your fondest memory of Meadville and/or high school?

Okay, so I probably still deserve an ass-whipping for this, but... I killed Pearl Jam.

Hear me out! When the whole grunge thing took hold, I saw one too many flannel shirts and just kinda snapped. So, I assembled a group of four other confederates (who will remain nameless to protect their safety) and met one morning at the edge of Rat Lake. I made sure we all had the same details about a tour bus accident, right down to Vedder being the only survivor, but losing an arm in surgery.

Well, it worked and I achieved whatever sense of revenge I was aiming for, but in retrospect... yeah, I was a 15 year-old jackass. My bad!

What was your favorite class? Who was your favorite teacher? Why?

Inman's jump-roping class. I took it as a way of making fun of Mr. Inman, but that guy destroyed my life with overwhelming cardiovascular mania. He was so strict! By the end, I walked away a total Inman fanboy; I'd take any damn gym class he'd tell me to take. Dude was amazing!

Did you have a nickname in high school?

Lord knows I deserved one or two... but, no.

If you could pick anything, what would you do when you retire?

Oh, I'm doing it now! I'll keep writing till I'm dead.

Give us your top three songs from high school.

Ooh, this is juicy! I mean, there has to be some Alice In Chains up in there, right? And Faith No More was my oxygen back then (still is, BTW), sooo...

  • Rain When I Die - Alice In Chains

  • Midlife Crisis - Faith No More

  • Cold and Ugly - TOOL

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Alumni Spotlight: Merry DeJohn (Studer)

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What has Merry been up to since graduation? Raising two boys (who are nearly men now!) and wrangling more animals than an ASPCA. This stay-at-home mom has been very busy!

Get to know Merry again.

Name some of the the places where you have lived.

I lived in Pittsburgh for a little bit but I have stayed mostly in Meadville since graduation.

Would you like to share a bit about your family?

I married Jason DeJohn on March 12, 2002. We had two boys, Jarrett (19) and Michael John (14). My boys play sports and drive demolition cars. I love being part of the crowd and watching them participate. On the animal front I have three dogs - Allie who is a pure pit bull, Jackie Kennedy who is a yorkie-rat terrier, and my granddog Gunner who is a mutt. I also have four goats, five ducks, and my son had 15 rabbits and 15 chickens.

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What have you been up to since graduation/the last reunion?

I have the best job in the world as a mom. And until recently, I have been taking care of my dad, who was terminally ill. My kids and family mean everything and I am so happy to have been there as they have grown.

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Share a fun fact about yourself. Maybe something we wouldn't know about you.

I love the mountains. And despite what people may think, I really don’t talk a lot. I’m actually quieter as I have gotten older.

What is your fondest memory of Meadville and/or high school?

The fiestada.

What was your favorite class? Who was your favorite teacher?

I liked them all. I liked school! Weird, huh?

Did you have a nickname in high school?

No, not that I know of.

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If you could pick anything, what would you do when you retire?

Leave Pennsylvania and move to the mountains.

Give us your top three songs from high school.

  • Smells Like Teen Spirit

  • One of Us

  • No Diggity

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Alumni Spotlight: Matthew Mariani

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What has Matt been up to since graduation? Leaping through fire, earning a black belt and tenderly caring for his bonsai tree, to name just a few things. 15 years of marriage and two kids later, Matt is definitely living his best life.

Get to know Matt again.

Name some of the the places where you have lived.  

  • Poughkeepsie, NY 2001 - 2006:  First job at IBM after college at R.I.T. Got married and lived for several years enjoying the Hudson Valley, New England for snowboarding, and exploring New York City.

  • Harrisburg, PA 2006-2018:  Had our first child, Isabella (2006), and moved back to PA to be close to family and friends.  Had a second child Isaac (2009), three years later. Fun fact: 2006 and 2009 are the last two years the Steelers, our favorite sports team, have won the Super Bowl.

  • Raleigh, NC 2018 - present:  Packed up the family to pursue a job opportunity.  We’ve been here less than a year, but loving it so far.

Would you like to share a bit about your family? Kids, fur babies, significant other, etc.

I’ve been married 15 years to my wife, Michelle.  We have two kids Isabella (age 13) and Isaac (age 10).  Michelle and I met when we were just kids, as she is first cousins to Jenn (Smith) Scavullo and would come to Meadville to visit from time to time.  We stayed in touch over the years and eventually got together after college.

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What do they do that makes you proud?

We’re fortunate to have two happy, healthy kids. Isabella is a competitive gymnast, which keeps her busy full time. Isaac plays soccer, piano and practices karate.

Did you go to college? Where did you go? What did you study?

After MASH I went to Rochester Institute of Technology (R.I.T.) and studied computer engineering.

What have you been up to since graduation/the last reunion?

Since graduation and getting married, I’ve been very happy living the family life and trying to find as much time to travel as possible.  In between, I’ll sign up for an obstacle course race here and there when I can - Spartan Race has been my favorite. On the work front, I spent my early career after college on the mainframe engineering team at IBM, then moved over to software sales at Red Hat in 2011. Last year (2018) I decided to take a job at Red Hat headquarters in Raleigh.

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Share a fun fact about yourself. Maybe something we wouldn't know about you.

I’ve always secretly wanted to be a ninja. I first started martial arts my senior year in downtown Meadville. I picked it back up late in college, then again after my first job in New York, but I never made it more than two years in a single style. Fast forward 10 years to when my son turned five (about 2013). I took another swing and got us both enrolled. Last summer (2018), after five years of training, I finally earned my first black belt.

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When you have some spare time, what is your favorite thing to do?

We stay busy, but when there is spare time it’s watching movies. Our favorite is Ghostbusters, and movie popcorn is a true vice of mine.

What is your fondest memory of Meadville and/or high school?

So many it’s hard to pick one, here’s a few:

  • All the friendships made. I’m still closer to my Meadville friends than I am with my college friends.  Thank goodness for Facebook (yeah, I’m on), which helps us stay up to date as we’ve all moved to many corners of the country.

  • My wife, Michelle, being my date for the spring dance senior year at MASH. That worked out well.

  • The basketball games. (Including one of Garner dunking and the crowd going nuts.) No offense baseball team, but one of my very few regrets in life was not sticking it out to play basketball. That was a fun team.

What was your favorite class? Who was your favorite teacher? Why?

Any of the math or computer sciences classes with Mr. Genung  Aside from being a brilliant teacher and having an uncanny ability to draw a perfect circle with a single, double-jointed swirl of his arm (anyone who took one of his classes knows what I mean), he had a great sense of humor and was a mentor for life outside the classroom. Mr. Genung introduced me to R.I.T., where I went to college and started my career in computers.

Did you have a nickname in high school?

Not that I ever was aware of? If so, please tell me!

School lunch - Did you pack or buy? If you bought lunch, what was your favorite menu item?

Pack...all the time.

If you could pick anything, what would you do when you retire?

Master the art of BBQ and open a bonsai shop. Getting back to the whole ninja thing, and you may recall “Bonsai!” from Karate Kid, I’d love to open a store and take care of plants full time. I only have one bonsai, and almost killed it - was down to one leaf but it’s doing better now.

Fortunately it’s a long way until retirement.

Give us your top three songs from high school.

It’s hard to remember back that far. These are more top bands than top songs. Here goes!

  • Hootie & the Blowfish - Only Wanna Be With You

  • Goo Goo Dolls - Black Balloon

  • Gin Blossoms - Follow You Down

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Alumni Spotlight: Erin Freedman (Fisher)

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Erin with her husband Jeremy and their two girls, Ella and Charlotte.

What has Erin been up to since graduation? Try chasing two kids, designing a more beautiful world & competing in just about anything outdoors for starters. It’s been a busy couple of decades for her!

Get to know Erin again.

Name some of the the places where you have lived.

I have been living in the Washington, DC area since college. 

Would you like to share a bit about your family? Kids, fur babies, significant other, etc. What do they do that makes you proud? 

I met my husband Jeremy the first week of college and we ended up getting married almost 10 years later at Conneaut Lake. We have two crazy daughters, Ella (5) and Charlotte (2). Ella started kindergarten this year and enjoys dancing and skiing. Charlotte is a little comedian who keeps us laughing every day

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Ella & Charlotte

Did you go to college? Where did you go? What did you study? 

I went to American University in DC. I had originally planned on a broadcast journalism career but switched it up halfway and ended up with a degree in Visual Media.

What have you been up to since graduation/the last reunion? 

For the most part, I’ve been a graphic designer since graduating college. I have worked for a bunch of different companies, organizations and non-profits including E*TRADE, AARP and most recently Sprint– where I’m in charge of designing their website and apps. I’ve also owned my own design firm, been a stay-at-home mom, and a photographer. I spent many years as a content creator and social influencer for Pinterest where I was responsible for creating content for a variety of clients including Mattel, Nabisco and Disney.

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Share a fun fact about yourself. Maybe something we wouldn't know about you. 

I really enjoy being outside enjoying nature as much as possible. It literally kills me when I have to sit at a desk all day. I’m pretty competitive when it comes to sports and have competed in mountain bike races, soccer leagues and have run the Marine Corps marathon as well as a bunch of half-marathons. Before kids, you’d find me hiking and camping every weekend in Shenandoah National Park and every year we take a trip out west to ski.

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When you have some spare time, what is your favorite thing to do? 

Spare time. What’s that?! When I’m not chasing kids around I love to grab brunch with friends, go for a run, visit local wineries, travel and work on my photography.

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What is your fondest memory of Meadville and/or high school?

Camp outs at Woodcock, bonfires, skiing at Peek-n Peak, going out on Conneaut Lake, watching “Friends” with...friends and literally just driving around the back roads of Meadville on a Friday night with people. In general I have this romanticized nostalgia for Meadville and all the good times I experienced there as a kid. After high school I just couldn’t wait to get out of there, but as I’ve gotten older and had my own family, I’ve come to appreciate all the awesome things that a small town has to offer. I really wish I could get up there more often.

What was your favorite class? Who was your favorite teacher? Why?

I loved all art classes for obvious reasons. But I also really enjoyed my AP Bio class senior year. If I didn’t have an art career I would enjoy doing something in the Bio or Medical field. Talk about opposite ends of the spectrum right? I also really liked gym, is that weird? I mean, I would die to play badminton or do archery during the day as an adult. I really disliked any and all math classes, and to this day I still get anxious just thinking about them

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School lunch - Did you pack or buy? If you bought lunch, what was your favorite menu item? 

Pack. I would buy on Fiestada days though. Man, I LOVED those things. 

If you could pick anything, what would you do when you retire?

I would love to be a florist! I would also travel anywhere and everywhere. I have this bucket list of travel experiences I would love to tackle including hiking to Mt. Everest Base Camp, skiing in Japan and visiting every National Park in the US. How soon is retirement?!

Give us your top three songs from high school. 

  1. Snoop Dogg: Gin and Juice

  2. Gangsta’s Paradise: Coolio

  3. Just a Girl: No Doubt

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Alumni Spotlight: Anne Spross (Schmitt)

Ann with her husband Brian and kids Emma and Andrew.

Ann with her husband Brian and kids Emma and Andrew.

What has Anne been up to since graduation? She’s been keeping it weird with her family down in Austin and has even run a half marathon… with Mr. Hayden!

Get to know Anne again.

MASH: Name some of the the places where you have lived.  

Anne: State College, PA and Austin, TX.

Would you like to share a bit about your family? Kids, fur babies, significant other, etc. What do they do that makes you proud?  

Brian and I got married almost 10 years ago in Rome, Italy. We have two kids Andrew (8) in second grade and Emma (5) in Kindergarten. It is such a blessing to watch them grow up into these amazing little human beings. Brian is an attorney and owns his own law firm with his partner Lance. We also own another company called Lakecliff Ventures that invests in start-ups and other projects. I can't forget about our one-year-old golden retriever named Dash. The kids love and adore him and it is so wonderful to watch him return the love.  

Did you go to college? Where did you go? What did you study?

Yes, Pennsylvania State University in State College, PA.  I have a Bachelor of Science degree in kinesiology. 

What have you been up to since graduation/the last reunion?

After college I worked at St. David's Hospital in their outpatient physical therapy department. I worked there until I had my kids and now I am blessed to be a stay-at-home mom. 

Share a fun fact about yourself. Maybe something we wouldn't know about you.  

I have run four marathons and numerous half marathons.  I even ran a half marathon with Mr. Hayden and we both won our age groups.

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Anne, pictured with her husband Brian, has run four marathons and has even won her age category.

When you have some spare time, what is your favorite thing to do?

I love to spend time with my family, travel, play tennis and run.

What is your fondest memory of Meadville and/or high school?

Playing volleyball. We had such a fun team.

What was your favorite class? Who was your favorite teacher? Why?

It's hard to pick...not sure.

Did you have a nickname in high school?

Schmitty or Annie.

School lunch - Did you pack or buy? If you bought lunch, what was your favorite menu item?

I think I used to buy a pack of crackers and a blue slushie. So healthy!! Blue slushies were probably my favorite.

If you could pick anything, what would you do when you retire?

Travel more especially in Europe and Australia. 

Give us your top three songs from high school.

I wouldn't say they are my favorite songs, but they remind me of high school.

  1. 1979 - The Smashing Pumpkins

  2. Send Me On My Way - Rusted Root

  3. California Love - 2Pac

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Alumni Spotlight: Paula Ramos (Gwin)

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After high school, Paula went into the Army where she was a military analyst.

What has Paula been up to since graduation? Well, it turns out, quite a lot! The Army, a big family, children’s books and the best lunch at MASH. She gets into all of it right here.

Get to know Paula again.

MASH: Name some of the the places where you have lived.

Paula: Fort Jackson, South Carolina; Fort Huachuca, Arizona; Fort Gordon, Georgia; Fort Hood, Texas, Killeen, Texas and now Copperas Cove, Texas.

Would you like to share a bit about your family? Kids, fur babies, significant other, etc. What do they do that makes you proud?

I am married to my second husband Luis Ramos (16 years in March). We have five kids, who are his, mine and ours. Luis Jr. (step son, 20) is a combat engineer in the Marines. Rebecca (daughter, 20) is studying criminal justice with a minor in biochemistry. She wants to be a crime scene investigator. Brittany (daughter, 17) will start college in the fall, studying photo journalism. Wendell (step son, 16) wants to join the Army when he gets out of school. Cristian (son, 14) wants to be either a choir teacher or a math teacher.

We have two dogs, a rescue Doberman named Creed and a Miniature Pinscher named Rocky (yes, my husband has a thing for Rocky Balboa).

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Paula with her husband, Luis

Did you go to college? Where did you go? What did you study?

I went to Central Texas Community College for my first degree in computer aided drafting and design. I am currently working on my second degree at Central Texas College, but I am transferring to Texas A&M to be a history teacher. The degree will be for reading, general studies and history for 4th - 8th graders.

What have you been up to since graduation/the last reunion?

After high school, I went into the Army. I was a military analyst when I was in active duty and later I was military police when I was in the Reserves. I have worked quite a few jobs since then as a jailer, security at Fort Hood, inventory specialist, communications officer at our local police department, supervisor/trainer at a call center and a graphics account manager doing architectural graphics.

Share a fun fact about yourself. Maybe something we wouldn’t know about you.

I have illustrated three children’s books as a freelance artist. I am unsure if any of them are published.

When you have some spare time, what is your favorite thing to do?

Spare time, what is that? I read books and sew.

What is your fondest memory of Meadville and/or high school?

Singing with the choir.

What was your favorite class? Who was your favorite teacher? Why?

My favorite class was art.

School lunch - Did you pack or buy? If you bought lunch, what was your favorite menu item?

I bought my lunch. My favorite meal was fiestada.

If you could pick anything, what would you do when you retire? 

Travel and paint

Give us your top three songs from high school.

  1. Change the World – Eric Clapton

  2. Don’t Speak – No Doubt

  3. Ironic – Alanis Morissette


The MASH Class of 96 Alumni Spotlight is a regular series, featuring classmates and The great things they’ve been up to over the years. This is a chance for us to get to know each other again and it’s a way for us to celebrate how far we have come. Interested in participating? Email us!